Swinging advice for first timers
The topic of learning how to swing and how to be comfortable with it, for both your spouse and you, is a big part in the entire swinging experience. There are several simple steps you can learn and apply, but the key is to take your time and take it one step at a time. Remember that swinging is a lot more enjoyable and less harmful if both parties are enjoying the experience. Dragging your spouse to a swinging event is simply unacceptable, and it will surely destroy your relationship. I would advice opening up to your spouse gradually and see how they react to it every step of the way. Start with soft swinging when both of you are ready to see if the relationship can actually withstand the lifestyle. If your relationship is on shaky ground, I strongly suggest you not to even think about swinging because it will only make it worse.
You can also learn a lot of new things about you and your spouse by swinging. There are plenty of couples discovering new things about themselves after enjoying some time with the lifestyle. The opportunities are endless, and you can discover anything about your sexuality, what actually turns you on, and learn about your spouse even deeper, by engaging this lifestyle. It can also be a great opportunity to learn to relax and appreciate sexual pleasure. After a while, sex may not be that interesting in marriage; you are turning sex into obligation that needs to be fulfilled. Swinging may help one view sex more as a source of pleasure and intimacy and less as a must-do or formality. It will seriously strengthen your relationship and your marriage. After all, this particular lifestyle should be all about constantly learning to swing, and swinging to learn.